The Company We Keep

Dear Friends,

Greetings in the Lord. Currently, we are on the road and in the Andean mountains of Peru. We are traveling and ministering in areas where there is a strong Catholic/Inca mixture of beliefs. The message that one is saved through faith, and not works, is mostly void in these regions as many are without the truth of the Gospel. The captivity to age old religious practices that preach works and not faith are a dominating force in much of the Andes. By the time you receive this letter we will be ministering to a specific people group who live at the highest elevation city in the world —  La Rinconada (16,700 feet). The city of La Rinconada is a gold mining colony and one where people risk their lives daily to dig for gold in extreme conditions. The people of La Rinconada die early due to contamination and the risks of mining and are trapped in the cycle of religious practices that does not define the true Gospel. Please pray for this journey and our ministry in other villages throughout the Andes. We know and believe the Lord will accomplish great things as the Word of God is preached! Partner with us as we reach the most distant peoples on earth and together we can make a difference.  

The Company We Keep

This month, we would like to talk about the company a person keeps and how that company ultimately influences the person they become. Proverbs 27:17: “Iron sharpens iron, and one man sharpens another.”

We are the sum of all the intimate friends we interact with in life. Our thought process, our actions, and our lifestyle all derive from the circle of friends we choose. The source of your beliefs and thoughts are greatly influenced by those around you, for better or for worse.

 

Proverbs 13:20 Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.”

Proverbs 12:26 “One who is righteous is a guide to his neighbor, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.”

1 Corinthians 15:33 “Do not be deceived: ‘Bad company corrupts good morals.’”  

 

Your dreams and desires are nourished and starved by the influence of your friends. Moreover, your influence on others will also help shape the course of your friends lives. Think about it for a moment. Do you have a friend who encourages you when you are feeling low? Have they said words to you that sustained you when you’ve needed it? Have they acted in faith or boldness in life, and because of that, it influenced you to do the same? Or to the contrary, do you have a friend who is depressing and critical and constantly taking from you but never giving? Do you have someone close to you who discourages your thoughts and dreams? Either way, good influence or bad influence, you will become what you associate with.

It is virtually impossible to achieve great things in life while being fed negative input. This is an important fact to recognize if you want to fulfill your calling. This doesn’t mean you need to abandon a friend if he or she is negative or has some other flaw, because we all have flaws (Colossians 3:12-14), but it does mean you need to judge what your closest circle of friends believe, and thus, listen to those who truly care for your wellbeing and have words of wisdom. True friends want to see the best for each other, but immature friends will secretly or openly try to hold you back from great things. Immature friends do this because they are threatened by the idea of change and fear their own failures. The best advice is to find like-minded friends who are equally yoked, and encourage each other in sincerity and kindness. If your circle of friends does not believe or act in the same fashion your spirit says is right, then you are either destined to conform, or will one day take a different path that leads you away from them.

Friendships are key to sustaining a good life and realizing your dreams and callings. We cannot go it alone. Ecclesiastes 4:10 “For if they fall, one will lift up his fellow. But woe to him who is alone when he falls and has not another to lift him up!” You also can’t have the expectation that everyone will be perfect, but you need to stick close to family and friends that are encouraging. Be patient and be kind, but if you are grieved in your spirit that your associations are tearing down your spiritual walk — then make a change.   

On the path of life, God gives us many great friendships and these should not be neglected. If someone is a stalwart of encouragement to you, let them know. If someone has helped you up when you have fallen, tell them thanks. Value those who are a blessing to you and as you give your love to them, you will receive it back many fold.  

At Travel the Road, we count each of you as friends. You encourage us daily through your testimonies, prayers and financial support and we are forever grateful to have friends like you. Many a times we have received letters or emails stating that a person is specifically praying for us, or had a burden to intercede at a specific time for our safety. These situations all turn out to be true and the prayers are desperately needed. This is a big encouragement: to know you are there for us and standing side by side with us as we preach the Gospel. Moreover, your financial support and tithes are such a blessing and keep us on the road to reach the unreached. You encourage us everyday with your love of missions and you truly are like-minded friends that care about accomplishing the Great Commission. Please continue your partnership in every way, we need it more than ever. Peace be with you friends, and know that you are a blessing to us always!

 

In Him,

Tim and Will